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Why Do We Want a Covenant of
Right Relations?
The well-being, strength, and reputation
of our church depend on a sense of fellowship among the members,
friends, and staff, which thrives in an atmosphere of trust, respect,
and cooperation. Within such an atmosphere, differences of opinion and
their resolution through compromise or consensus can enhance a sense of
community. However, differences or misunderstandings that go unresolved
and descend into prolonged conflict can threaten the social fabric of
our church. The goal of the Covenant of Right Relations is to assist in
the prevention of such situations; the Covenant is composed of general
principles that might guide each of us in our relationships with others
within the church community.
We preface the suggestions proposed in
the Draft of the PCUUC Covenant of Right Relations with the common sense
wisdom that we all should adhere to the UU Principles and Purposes,
exhibiting behaviors that enhance the dignity and inherent worth of all
participants: expressing sincere appreciation; allowing for human
fallibility; dealing directly with each other; speaking softly; being
creative in problem solving; maintaining a sense of humor; actively
listening and clarifying what we hear; letting others have their say;
respecting boundaries that may differ from our own; respecting
confidentiality; refraining from harmful gossip about others; and
speaking honestly.
Your Input Requested
Thank you for taking time to read the
proposed PCUUC Covenant of Right Relations.
If you would like to suggest changes,
additions, deletions, etc. to the proposed Covenant of Right Relations,
please contact PCUUC Board President Sally Merritt at president@prairiecircleuuc.org,
or Administrator Sara May at office@prairiecircleuuc.org.